Romance novels, porn, role play, lingerie. They’re all great waysto showon your sexual accelerator, but usually aren’t enough,consistent withEmily Nagoski, PhD, a sex educator and author of the best-selling book “Come as You Are: The Surprising New Sciencewhich willTransform Your Sex Life”.
“Those things are great ifyou wishthem, go ahead, but itseemsthat folksare struggling usually not because there’s not enough stimulation to the accelerator — it’s thatthere'san excessive amount ofstimulation to the brake,” Nagoski tells NBC News BETTER.
Nothing triggers your brakequitestress,consistent withNagoski.
“Stressmay be asurvival mechanismto assistyou when your body is sending you signals that sayyou'renot safeimmediately,” Nagoski says, “and if you’re not safeimmediately, is thatan honestmoment to be having sex?”
No matterwhat proportionyou’re trying to pump the accelerator, chronic stress can completely squelch yourdrive, says Nagoski. Work, childcare, and reduced sleep are justa couple ofthingswhich willtread onthe brake, she says.
For many long-term couples, the pressureto take care ofa uniformsex lifemay be agreat source of stress, says the author, and, ironically,is usuallythe rationalethey’re not having it consistently.
Here are some techniques couples can useto urgetheir accelerator going,consistent withNagoski.
Schedule time for sex Couples who stay in long-term, happy relationships usually prioritize sex and even put it on their calendars, says Nagoski.
“Some people hear that and think, ‘Well that’s not really romantic,what proportioncan your partner want you ifthey needto schedule it?’” she says. “But is there anything weneutralizeour lives that’s important to us that we don’t schedule?”
Nagoski says scheduling sex gives you time to eliminate any stressors that are hitting your brake, whether it’s work-related stress orensuringthehome isclean.
“There is preparation time whereyou'lldo whatever it takes for youto scale backyour stress levels or get your accelerator warmed up,” she says.
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